I have three small hand mixers of varying ages and conditions - I AIN'T HAPPY! 
 
 My ideal: a very slow initial speed (high priority), smooth and quiet (not critical but...).
The speed issue is the initial flinging of ingredients into the air wherein I operate in a cloud of stuff despite working next to my vent operating on high. Usually, I whisk the liquids by hand but I like to add the dry with the mixer in one hand, etc.  
Am I a little toooooo particular about this 
 
   
   
 Thanks for being kind . . . .